140+ Happy 4th Anniversary Wishes To Express Your Love

Four years. 1,460 days. (Give or take a few sleepy Sundays.) That’s a whole lot of coffee cups clinking, socks missing in the laundry, forehead kisses, and laughing way too hard over the dumbest inside jokes. The 4th anniversary is this quiet, golden checkpoint past the sugar rush of the early love stage, but not yet into the “we’ve been doing this since dial-up internet” kind of era. It’s the heartbeat of a shared journey steady, silly, storm-tested, sweet.

This isn’t just a wedding anniversary, it’s a whole relationship milestone soaked in gratitude, layered with affection, a sprinkle of humor, and probably that one fight you still both roll your eyes at.

Whether you call them your soulmate, your goofball, your queen, or just “babe,” a good wish (the kind that squeezes the heart a lil’) is the perfect way to mark this moment. And these aren’t just any happy anniversary messages they’re for your real four-year kind of love.

Romantic 4th Anniversary Wishes to Melt Hearts

“Four years, and still my heartbeat knows the rhythm of your name best.”
“You’re the sunshine that brightens my days, the calm in my chaos, the ‘I got you’ in my every stumble.”
“Even forever don’t sound long enough when we’re laughing together like this.”
“The first four years with you feel like chapters in a fairytale… with snacks, snuggles, and minor plot twists.”
“You are the melody of sentiments playing on repeat in my soul’s jukebox.”
“Every ‘I love you’ after all this time still feels like the first but warmer.”
“We built this little world messy, magical, and mine. I wouldn’t trade it for anything.”
“Four years of falling asleep to your breath. Four years of choosing you. Every day.”
“If love had a smell, it’d be fresh coffee, your hoodie, and warm rain. That’s us.”
“With you, I’ve found the missing piece to my puzzle… and probably the one who keeps hiding the remote.”
“Four candles on the anniversary cake, and still, your eyes are the brightest flame.”

Funny 4th Anniversary Wishes (For That Annoying Yet Adorable Vibe)

“Four years of putting up with each other? I think we deserve cake. And maybe therapy.”
“You’re the only one I’d share fries with… even though I still pretend I didn’t want any.”
“Happy 4th, my love. Thanks for not smothering me with a pillow in my sleep (yet).”
“Every time I hear snoring now, I think ‘awww’. That’s messed up.”
“They said marriage success takes work. We just added memes and snacks.”
“Cheers to four years of confusing arguments about literally nothing!”
“We’ve lasted longer than some houseplants and 87% of celebrity couples. Boom.”
“You’re still my goofball, my cuddle monster, and the reason I can’t binge-watch anything alone.”
“Four years, and I’ve mastered the art of loving you despite the toothpaste cap situation.”
“Thanks for always being the one I want to strangle… and then kiss.”

4th Wedding Anniversary Wishes for Your Wife

“To my queen, thank you for being the poetry in my prose, the calm in my storm, the grace in my mess.”
“Your laugh, your strength, your sleepy morning face I’m still in awe, four years in.”
“You are the reason I believe in the magic of everyday things.”
“I married my dream come true, and I still wake up stunned that it’s real.”
“You are more than my partner you are my peace, my fire, my forever.”
“These four years have been wrapped in your softness, your strength, your soul.”
“Every chapter of us, you write it with grace and some stubbornness I secretly admire.”
“Happy 4th anniversary, my darling. You’ve turned life into art.”
“You are the best decision I ever made and the best accident I ever prayed for.”
“With you, building a life together is a masterpiece in progress.”

Heartfelt 4th Anniversary Wishes for Your Husband

“Four years ago, I married the man who still makes my knees wobble and my heart steady.”
“You are the rock I build my life on and the joker who still makes me snort-laugh in public.”
“I don’t just love you I trust you with all the versions of me I’m still becoming.”
“Thank you for being my constant support, my home, my personal superhero.”
“We’ve grown together, like vines twisted in the most beautiful way.”
“You are still the reason I smile at my phone like a teenager.”
“Happy marriage anniversary, babe. You’re the only person I wanna annoy forever.”
“You’ve made the ordinary feel like stardust. Still can’t believe I got this lucky.”
“No map could’ve led me better than love did right into your arms.”
“Here’s to falling deeper in love every time you dance badly in the kitchen.”

Sweet 4th Anniversary Messages for Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend

“I’d pick you again at the airport, in a zombie apocalypse, or a cereal aisle.”
“Your laugh is still my favorite song. And your face? My favorite everything.”
“Four years with you, and my heart still throws a party every time you walk in.”
“You’re not just my boyfriend/girlfriend you’re my safest place, my wildest adventure.”
“Still got butterflies. But like, the chill kind that know where home is.”
“You taught me what affection really means like forehead kisses and phone calls just to hear my voice.”
“Happy relationship milestone, my love. Let’s keep being weird together.”
“You’re the only person I’d share my fries and future with.”
“Four years. Countless kisses. Endless ‘I love yous’ whispered like secrets.”

Emotional 4th Anniversary Sayings for Soulmates

“You’re the ink in my story, the sigh in my silence, the symphony of life I never knew I needed.”
“There are pieces of me that only bloom when you’re near. That’s what love does, I guess.”
“This four year relationship celebration isn’t just time it’s soul history.”
“My soulmate, thank you for being the voice that calms, the fire that burns, the hand that holds.”
“Together, we are gravity and flight. We are everything that makes staying magical.”
“Happy 4th anniversary, my always. No matter how many lifetimes we’d find each other again.”

Anniversary Wishes With a Poetic Touch

“If love were ink, we’d be poetry scribbled in moonlight and coffee stains.”
“You and me—we’re an unfinished song that somehow always ends on a perfect note.”
“Time hasn’t dulled us—it’s deepened the hues, like vintage wine or an old love letter.”
“Every day with you is like rereading my favorite chapter, and still feeling surprised.”

Anniversary Greetings Full of Gratitude

“Thank you for being the anchor when I drift and the wings when I freeze.”
“I’m grateful for the chaos, the calm, the everything in between because it’s with you.”
“These first four years have been messy and magnificent. And I wouldn’t change a second.”
“Thank you for turning mundane Mondays into memory-filled miracles.”
“With you, love is easy. Life is possible. Everything feels lighter.”

Loving 4th Anniversary Messages for Long-Distance Couples

“Even across oceans, I feel your love like a sunrise touching closed eyelids.”
“Our love has wings and a good WiFi connection.”
“The distance only proves how real this love is. I’d do these next four years again, even apart.”
“We’re writing a love story with stamps, screens, and that same old longing.”

How to Use These Wishes

Slide these sweet words into a handwritten anniversary card, scribble one on the mirror, or text it during your lunch break. Drop a romantic line in your Instagram caption, or whisper one into their ear during a hug. They’re built for flexibility just like your love story.

“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”
Emily Brontë

Conclusion

Love isn’t perfect. But it is worth every small fight, every eye-roll, every shared giggle under the blankets. This 4th wedding anniversary is your living proof of that. Let your heart speak awkwardly, poetically, honestly. Because no one loves like you two do. And hey, if any of these wishes tugged at your chest a lil’ drop your favorite one in the comments. Share the joy, share the laughter, and keep writing your fourth year love journey with soul.